Frequently asked questions

An admin reviewed a photo the advertiser took holding a handwritten code, confirming the person in the photos controls the account. It reduces risk but doesn't eliminate it — use your own judgment regardless of badge status. See Safety for more.

Each profile lists a weekly availability schedule and an optional "available now" flag the advertiser toggles themselves. Advertisers can also list up to five touring cities with date ranges — a "Touring" tag and date range show on their profile and directory card while a stop is active.

Both are placement boosts an admin grants manually — this site doesn't process payments (see Client guide). Featured advertisers show in a separate row above the regular directory grid; search priority instead ranks a profile higher within the regular grid and search results. Neither changes verification status or review scores.

Member messaging is currently turned off site-wide. Reach advertisers directly through the contact methods listed on their profile instead.

Favouriting a profile (requires a free account) adds it to your Favorites list. A city alert notifies you when a new advertiser goes live, or an existing one starts touring, in a city you've saved.

Every profile has a Report button — no account needed. Use it for scams, suspected underage content, suspected trafficking or coercion, harassment, fake photos, or spam. Trafficking and underage reports go straight to the top of our moderation queue, and our automated scanning hides a listing immediately on a clear match.

No. Never pay a deposit, booking fee, or gift card to secure an appointment. This site never processes payments and never asks for one on an advertiser's behalf. Anyone who asks you to pay in advance to "hold" an appointment is scamming you — report them immediately.

From Settings → Verification, upload a photo of yourself holding a handwritten code the site generates (valid 24 hours). An admin reviews it — approval adds the verified badge to your profile.

Up to 20 photos per profile. Every upload is automatically watermarked and stripped of EXIF/location metadata, and you can optionally blur a face before uploading. New photos wait for admin review before they appear publicly. You can also pick one approved photo as your profile's header photo from Photos.

Set your weekly schedule and up to two secondary home cities in Profile, and toggle "available now" and touring stops from your Dashboard. Changing your touring cities too many times in a day triggers an automatic review flag — this is a routine safety check, not a penalty.

Both are placement boosts an admin grants manually (this site has no self-serve payment flow) — contact us if you're interested. Featured places you in a separate row above the regular directory grid; search priority ranks you higher within the regular grid and search results.

A profile with no save for 90 days is automatically hidden from the directory and public profile (your data isn't deleted). Your dashboard shows a one-click "Unhide" if this happens — or just save your profile again to keep it active.

Yes to both, from Profile (reviews) and Dashboard (visibility). Hiding takes you out of the directory and off your public URL without losing any data — bring it back anytime.