Client guide

A short guide to how this directory works, so reaching out goes smoothly for everyone involved.

Screening

Many advertisers ask new contacts to screen before booking. Screening is simply how an independent advertiser confirms who they're meeting, for their own safety — it's not a scam or an inconvenience, it's a normal part of independent work.

An advertiser's profile lists which methods they accept, which may include:

• A reference from another advertiser you've seen before
• Verifying your ID
• Checking a social media profile
• A third-party screening service
• Confirming your employer

If a profile lists "screening required," expect to go through one of these steps before an appointment is confirmed. Cooperating promptly and honestly is the fastest way through it.

Deposits

Never pay a deposit, booking fee, or gift card to secure an appointment. This site does not process payments and never asks for one on an advertiser's behalf. Any payment for time together happens directly between you and the advertiser, through whichever contact method they list on their verified profile — and always at your own risk, the same as any in-person arrangement made off-platform.

Anyone who asks you to pay in advance to "hold" an appointment is scamming you. Report them.

Etiquette

• Read the full profile — rates, availability, and screening requirements — before reaching out.
• Introduce yourself clearly when you first reach out; vague or one-word introductions are usually ignored.
• Respect the contact methods and hours an advertiser lists. Don't push to move off-platform immediately.
• Confirm details (time, location, rate) before you arrive, and be on time.
• If you need to cancel, say so as early as you can.

Reporting

Every profile has a Report button. Use it for scams, suspected underage content, suspected trafficking or coercion, harassment, fake photos, or spam — reports flagging trafficking or underage concerns go straight to the top of our moderation queue, and our automated scanning hides a listing immediately on a clear match. You don't need an account to report a profile.

For more on staying safe, see the Safety page, or check the FAQ for quick answers to common questions.