Haven McCrae

I'm a self-proclaimed sapiosexual, born in the wrong era and living quite comfortably in the right kind of chaos. I'm an avid reader, writer, painter, drawer, puzzle addict, crossword masochist, and veritable font of useless information. You know the kind of woman who can tell you the mating habits of some obscure deep-sea creature, the etymology of a word you've never heard, and three completely unnecessary facts about the Roman Empire—yet somehow still forgets where she put her phone That's me. My brain is basically a browser with 47 tabs open, 12 of them playing music, and absolutely no indication of where the noise is coming from. And yes, intellectualism turns me on. A sharp mind, wicked wit, confidence, curiosity, intelligent conversation and a man who can challenge me without needing to prove he's the smartest person in the room Now that gets my attention. Make me think and you may discover just how distracting I find a clever man. There is something ridiculously seductive about a man who can make my brain light up before he ever lays a hand on me. I'm looking for a man who enjoys being seduced—and I'm not exactly shy about doing the seducing. I'm sensual, flirtatious, adventurous and just presumptuous enough to assume you're going to be intrigued. A wink, a knowing smirk, a crooked finger, and suddenly you're wondering how you ended up tangled in my gossamer web of seduction and purple prose. I grew up reading dark erotica, so my imagination tends to wander into beautifully dark, twisted places. I love a challenge, I love puzzles, and I love anything that makes me wonder what happens next. I'm comfortable surrendering control when the chemistry calls for it, and I understand that there can be tremendous power in choosing to submit. But I'm equally comfortable taking the reins. I'm a switch—and I happen to enjoy the ambiguity. I've even taken shibari classes, so yes, I'm familiar with decorative rope bondage. I'm adventurous in and